I work with trans people because I see you and I believe you deserve great care. I believe in asking and supporting what makes you comfortable. I use your preferred pronouns. I believe in explaining what a session will look like. I believe in celebrating your top surgery, or understanding how you bind or what you’re nervous about. And like mentioned above, I love supporting people to be authentically in their bodies. 

Maybe we feel selfish for focusing on ourselves because it’s the conditioning we grew up with? Maybe we feel we don't deserve it? Maybe we feel like we need permission to put ourselves first? Maybe we need to be in more pain?